Despite talking the talk, saying you will "keep in touch", and making plans, there are still those people who let life get in the way. It saddens me. When I really want to have these relationships with these people, and more than half of them do not reciprocate, its everything that's disappointing. We must learn, that despite our "busy" lives, there are so many things that can wait. Cancel what you were going to do today, and spend quality time with quality people. That is what this life is all about. Sharing laughter, smiles, ideas. Humans were put on this earth with other humans to be amongst each other. I love the saying "If they want to be in your life, they will make it happen". Sometimes they do, but most of the time they don't. I can not tell you the countless amount of times I have listened to a friend or acquaintance say how bummed out they were because they didn't get to see that certain person again. But then they do nothing about it, because they are "embarrassed", or they think this person is going to take it the wrong way. You never know what another person is thinking unless they tell you. So don't go mind reading. Almost all of the time you are wrong. If you want someone in your life, tell them. Don't wait for them to come to you. Go for it. This life is too short to wait around for others to make the first move. This could be for anyone. An old family member, an old friend, a new friend, a love interest, anyone! You never know what could happen. Please, choose to reunite. Be with the ones you want. Whats stopping you?
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